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10:52 am by Penelope

Top Ten Toys for Active Boys (& Girls) [2022]

Top-Toys-Active-BoysBecause I am the mother of two very active boys (one extremely hyperactive ADHD son), I’m always searching for toys and activities to keep my energetic boys entertained.  My husband (a former elementary PE teacher) and I compiled this list of the top toys that keep our active boys playing.

Many of these toys for active boys include jumping. Jumping is a great activity for active children, and extremely useful for children that may have sensory processing issues. My son is sensory seeking and jumping helps him expel energy and provides much-desired sensory input.

Here is my gift guide for toys for active boys (and girls). This list includes a variety of toys with different price ranges. Some of these toys can even be used indoors.

Top Ten Toys for Active Boys (& Girls)

Monster Feet Stompers  $6.15

top-toys-active-boys-adhdMy husband highly recommends these plastic “stilts” for any kid. His students would play with these stompers throughout an entire PE class period. The plastic is durable and will even hold the weight of a 200-pound man.

Pogo Jumper $15.00

top-toys-active-boys-adhdThis pogo stick is made of a soft, durable foam and squeaks when your child jumps.  Since it doesn’t require the balance skills of a regular pogo “stick”, children as young as 3 years old can jump indoors or out.

Hopping Horse $17.49

top-toys-active-boys-adhdLast year, at a going-away party for Island Gypsy Hawaii, this hopping horse was the life of the party for my two preschool boys.  They would bounce, fall off, and bounce again…for the entire duration of the party.

Pogo Balance Board $29.99

According to ADD expert, Dr. Edward Hallowell, new research shows that a balance board stimulates the cerebellum part of the brain and can help children with concentration and reading problems. What other reason do you need?

Pop-Up Play Tent $18.99

top-toys-sensoryWe purchased a pop-up play tent for my oldest son when he started walking, and 4 years later, he and his brother still play in this tent at least every other day. They love to fill it with toy cars, superheroes, and tennis balls. You will have to purchase balls separately.

Plasma Car $89.99

6-toy-plasma-car1Our church’s school has a number of these Plasma Cars that kids play on incessantly when they are brought out. These toy cars go by turning the steering wheel back and forth. Kids learn great coordination and movement skills while playing with this toy car.

Indoor Trampoline $49.95top-toys-spd-adhdWhen we visit my sister, my boys jump continuously on the indoor trampoline, even while watching movies.  This trampoline is for use up to 150 pounds (just in case, I want to exercise myself).

Bicycle $119.99My boys love to ride a bicycle, but now it’s extremely difficult to find a bicycle that can passed down to either a boy or a girl. I found this bicycle that can be used by either a boy or a girl. It also comes in other colors, such as white – plus you can purchase this bicycle in sizes from 12-inch wheels with training wheels to 20-inch wheels with kickstand – and the 3 other sizes in between!

Bounce House $209.99top-toys-jumping-house-spdWe purchased this inflatable bounce house for our kids two years ago, and my boys LOVE it! Our bounce house is easy to set up and take down. This bounce house has proven to be durable, and is extremely popular at get-togethers, birthday parties, and at home. It is totally enclosed with netting so it is safe.

Swing Set $165.99After intense research on the durability of swing sets, we purchased a metal swing set for our active boys. This swing set is made of steel instead of the plastic play sets that are so popular now. This set comes with two swings, a climbing net and a basketball hoop. My in-laws still have the steel swing set, my sister-in-law played on as a child. Now the grandkids and great-grandkids play on it! Metal swing sets last forever!

What are your top toys to give the active kid? Please comment below.

FTC Disclosure: The links in this post are affiliate links for Amazon, which means when you click on a link and purchase, I receive a very small commission (at no additional cost to you). Amazon then gives that commission to me as an Amazon gift card so I can purchase from Amazon. See how nicely that works for Amazon? 

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7:15 am by Penelope

Our Family’s Best Halloween Costumes Through the Years

It’s hard to believe but I’ve been a mom for over five years now! My babies have grown into little boys. No longer can I just pick out Halloween costumes for my family.  My boys now are big thinkers with their own ideas for Halloween costumes.  And they now tell me what costumes they will be wearing for Halloween. Through the years, our family wore group Halloween costumes that were so much fun to put together.

Our family Halloween costumes through the years:

Long before Big Bang Theory debuted on the small screen, my sweet husband (then fiancée) and I were just a couple of nerds in love!

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A few years later, we were blessed with a very special baby elephant that joined John McCain and Sarah Palin on the campaign trail.

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When the foster “twin” girl to my Mickey Mouse moved a few days before Halloween, Mommy stepped in to fill Minnie’s ears.

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The next year, a new addition to our family made no place like home!

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And then, the Joker and Catwoman tried to foil Batman, the Caped Crusader, and Robin the Boy Wonder.

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But ahoy, matey, this crew of pirates tried to take over a Disney cruse ship last Halloween.

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Does your family dress in Halloween costumes? Which family Halloween costume is your favorite?

8:25 am by Penelope

Our Disney Cruise Pirate Night Costumes

The week before our Disney Cruise last fall, we discovered that Disney Cruise Lines hosts a Pirates in the Caribbean night. Not only does the cruise staff dress in pirate costumes, but everyone does!!! That sent us scrambling at the last minute for pirate costume ideas.

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We met Captain Jack Sparrow, the star of Disney’s Pirates of the Caribbean!

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Pirates in the Caribbean! Party on the deck!

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DIY Homemade Pirate Costume for Men

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Satin Pirate Costume Shirt – Adult XL
Red Fabric for Sash (2 yards)
Black Pants
Black Shoes
Adult Pirate Boot Covers – Adult Std.Black Curly Hair Wig Costume AccessoryBandana or Pirate Headwrap Bandana HatPirate Patch and EarringCaptain Hook Hand Costume AccessoryToy Buccaneer Sword

DIY Homemade Pirate Costume for Women

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Red & White Striped Pirate Matey Shirt
Red Fabric for Sash (2 yards)
Black Pants
Black Boots
Bandana
Pirate Hat
Pirate Patch and Earring

Also, check out this cute Womens Pirate Costume for $20.

 Pirate Costume Ideas for Kids

Disclosure: Links in this post are affiliate links to Amazon, which means if you click on a link & purchase an item, I receive a tiny commission as an Amazon gift card so I can shop on Amazon. See how that works nicely for Amazon?

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8:49 am by Penelope

VIDEO: Our Last Minute Vacation & Foster Parenting Update

The majority of this summer, our family was larger by 2 foster children.  A little girl that we thought would be a good playmate for our 6-year-old was a parenting challenge. Plus, I had forgotten just how HARD it is to take care of an infant, especially one that is already exhibiting signs of hyperactivity with NO napping.  We were ALL stressed out.

When the foster children left at the end of July, we realized that our family had been so busy in this chaos, that we hadn’t planned a summer vacation!  After the stress of constant bickering, we ALL needed a nice break!

After discussing our options, we were excited about a getaway to the Dallas Metroplex, and opted to stay in Arlington with all the family activities there.

Check out my video of our day at the Six Flags Hurricane Harbor waterpark! (Listen to the lyrics of the song, Gone, Gone, Gone:  “You will never be alone. I’ll love long after you are gone, gone, gone.”

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Thanks for watching!

Did you sneak in a summer vacation with your family? Where did you travel?

6:28 am by Penelope

Part of My Son’s Past is Gone

If you follow me on Instagram, you already know that we had an exciting day last Friday.  The day began as any average, quiet morning in our household, with our 6-year-old throwing a fit. I don’t recall what he was upset about — maybe he wanted donuts for breakfast? He had run into his bedroom and was on the floor crying.

As I walked into his room, he raised his red, teary face at me. I smiled and became excited. “Wow! Look at you! Hurry! Go to the bathroom and look in the mirror!” His demeanor changed immediately as he got up and trotted off to the bathroom. He was looking in the mirror, as I exclaimed, “Smile! Look at you! You’re so big!” And then he saw it!
20130815-062630.jpg My baby boy lost his first tooth! And he didn’t even know it! We rushed around looking for the lost tooth because — there’s money in that, you know? He quickly found it on the floor where he had been crying just moments before. We didn’t even realize the tooth was loose! Since his other
tooth was loose, Dad pulled it too. 20130815-062646.jpgWhen my baby boy came to live with us at 8 months old, those bottom two teeth were the only teeth he had. For me it’s a particularly bittersweet moment for the loss of those two teeth are also a loss of my baby boy that isn’t a baby anymore. This baby boy changed our lives immediately. One phone call on March 4, 2008 changed the lives of so many.
20130815-062714.jpgThose two teeth were the link to his past life. There is nothing now left from his former life (except Blankie).  Today, I think of his birthmom and her incredible loss of such an amazing son. Has she finally overcome her addiction? I pray for her and birthmothers everywhere.

Our boy placed his teeth under his pillow for the Tooth Fairy with a tooth holder like this one on Amazon:

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It had belonged to his 21-year-old Bubba.
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$5 for 2 teeth. It appears the Tooth Fairy didn’t have change.

Do you follow our adventures on Instagram? All the cool kids are!

6:10 am by Penelope

What Are the Rules for Swimming With Foster Kids?

Swimming (and playing in the water) is the number one recreational activity in the summer!  However, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), one in five people who drown are children age 14 and under! [CDC]

A licensed foster home has rules and regulations to follow in regard to water safety for foster children.

These rules for foster families are actually practical water safety tips that ANY family with children should implement.

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Who has to abide by these water safety requirements for swimming pools & water bodies?

These requirements only apply to homes that are providing foster care services. This includes foster homes also approved as adoptive homes, but does not include adoptive homes only approved for adoption.

What are the general requirements for caregivers regarding water safety for foster children?

  • Caregivers must use prudent judgment and ensure children in your care are protected from unsupervised access to water such as a swimming pool, hot tub, fountain, pond, lake, creek, or other body of water.
  • If children are allowed to swim in a body of water such as a river, creek, pond, or lake, the supervising adult must clearly designate swimming areas.
  • Rules governing the activity and the dangers of the body of water must be explained to foster children in a manner that is clearly understood prior to their participation.

What are the child/adult ratios for swimming activities?

The maximum number of children one adult can supervise during swimming activities is based on the age of the youngest child in the group and is specified in the following chart:

If the age of the youngest child is…

Then you must have one adult to supervise every (number) child/ren in the group

Swimming

Child/Adult Ratio

 

0 to 23 months old

1

1:1

2 years old

2

2:1

3 years old

3

3:1

4 years old

4

4:1

5 years old or older

6

6:1

  • If four or more children are engaged in swimming activities, then there must be at least two adults to supervise the children.
  • A lifeguard who is supervising the area where the children are swimming may be counted in the child/adult ratio.
  • Children over the age of 12 years old who are proficient swimmers do not have to be included in the ratio.

Do all supervising adults have to know how to swim?

No. However, at least one adult counted in the swimming child/adult ratio must be able to swim, carry out a water rescue, and be prepared to do so in an emergency.

 

When must a child wear a life jacket?

A child must wear a life jacket when:

  • Participating in boating activities;
  • The child is in more than two feet of water and does not know how to swim; or
  • Ordered by a physician for a child with a medical problem or disability.

What are the general requirements for a swimming pool at a foster home?

  • The caregivers must inform children about house rules for use of the swimming pool and appropriate safety precautions. Adult supervision and monitoring of safety features must be adequate to protect children from unsupervised access to the pool.
  • At least two life-saving devices must be available, such as a reach pole, backboard, buoy, or a safety throw bag with a brightly colored buoyant rope or throw line. One additional life-saving device must be available for each 2,000 square feet of water surface, so a pool of 2,000 square feet would require three life saving devices.
  • Drain grates must be in place, in good repair, and capable of being removed only with tools.
  • Caregivers must be able to clearly see all parts of the swimming area when supervising activity.
  • The bottom of the pool must be visible at all times.
  • Pool covers must be completely removed prior to pool use.
  • An adult must be present who is able to immediately turn off the pump and filtering system when any child is in the pool.
  • Pool chemicals and pumps must be inaccessible to all children.
  • Machinery rooms must be locked to keep children out.

What are the requirements for accessibility and fences around swimming pools?

  • A fence or wall that is at least four feet high must enclose the pool area.
  • Fence gates leading to the outdoor pool area must be self-closing and self-latching.
  • Gates must be locked when the pool is not in use.
  • Keys to open the gate must not be accessible to children under the age of 16 years old.
  • Doors that lead from the home to the pool area must have a lock that only adults or children over 10 years old can reach. The lock must be completely out of the reach of children younger than 10 years old.
  • Furniture, equipment, or large materials must not be close enough to the pool area for a child to use them to scale the fence or release a lock.

Are the requirements different for aboveground pools?

 An aboveground pool must:

  • Be inaccessible to children under the age of 16 years old when it is not in use.
  • Meet the same requirements for swimming pools, but is not required to be fenced.

Does a backyard fence meet these requirements for inaccessibility?

A backyard fence may serve as the pool fence/wall if it meets all fence/wall and gate criteria above that requires that children may not have unsupervised access to the pool area. Therefore, if the backyard fence serves as the pool fence/wall, then children may not have unsupervised access to the backyard and doors leading to the back yard must comply with the requirements. However, if the entire backyard is serving as the pool area, children may not be in the backyard without direct caregiver supervision.

 

What are the safety requirements for a hot tub?

A hot tub must be:

  • Enclosed per the requirements above; or
  • Covered with a locking cover when not in use.

What are the safety requirements for wading pools?

Wading/splashing pools (less than two feet of water) must be:

  •  Stored out of children’s reach, when not in use;
  •  Drained at least daily; and
  •  Stored, so it does not hold water.

What if there is a body of water that is on or adjacent and accessible to a foster home?

You must document the following regarding a body of water that is on or adjacent and accessible to the premises of a foster home:

  • Type, location, and size of the body of water; and
  • Barriers between the foster home and the body of water.

Note: This list of water safety rules is for foster homes in the State of Texas. You can read more of the Texas regulations for foster homes or check with your state foster home licensing agency.

How do you keep your children safe around water?

12:54 pm by Penelope

Our Disney Cruise Was Magical

After being foster parents for 3 little ones in addition to our 2 preschool boys, we were in desperate need of a vacation! We were elated to learn that Disney Cruise now has family cruises leaving out of Galveston! We wouldn’t have to travel to Florida with our young boys to experience Disney magic! In less than 24 hours, we booked a Disney cruise.

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Our Disney Cruise was a magical experience for all of us!

disney-cruise-ship-magic-picturesWe loved meeting all the Disney characters up close and personal.

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One thing we quickly learned was that the cruise ship’s gift shop did not take cash; however, they did accept MasterCard for our on-board purchases.

Our Disney cruise included a port stop in Grand Cayman, which offers a variety of excursions including Seven Mile Beach, Cayman Turtle Farm, snorkeling adventures, etc.  We booked our excursions ahead of time to ensure that we would have a reserved spot.

If you visit Grand Cayman — you MUST pet the stingrays at Stingray City! Just sayin’cayman-stingray-city-scuba-excursion

Since not everyone in my family is as adventurous as me; afterward, I met dad and the kids at Rum Point, a relaxing, quiet beachfront with a variety of eating stands in little huts, and of course, a gift shop!

disney-cruise-cayman-rum-point-excursion The currency used in Grand Cayman is the Cayman Islands dollar (CI$) which has a fixed exchange rate of US$1 equal CI$1.20. Souvenirs from Cayman include the famous Tortuga rum cakes, postcards from Hell, and anything turtle. We purchased our souvenirs (including turtle salt and pepper shakers for my in-laws) at the gift shop there at Rum Point using our MasterCard because it is accepted everywhere.  Due to some complicated IRS rules, many merchants abroad do not accept all credit cards anymore. But MasterCard is accepted everywhere!

disney-cruise-pictures-mexicoOur Disney cruise included 2 other port stops in Mexico: Costa Maya and Cozumel.  Because the Mexican Pecos fluctuates in value between 10-15 Pecos for $1US, it’s easiest to purchase with MasterCard. MasterCard automatically converts Pecos to US dollars with the best currency exchange rate with no additional fees.

We purchased souvenirs and silver jewelry in Cozumel; however, we did NOT purchase any Cuban cigars!

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If you’re looking for a credit card that you are sure will be accepted anywhere abroad while traveling, I would recommend MasterCard. For more Disney Cruise pictures, including dolphins, be sure to check out my Google+ Story!

As part of a sponsored post for Collective Bias®, I’m sharing my experience of how MasterCard was accepted everywhere on our recent Disney Cruise vacation to the Caribbean.

2:30 pm by Penelope

Travel Tips We Learned on Our Family Cruise

Disney-cruise-tips-vacation-activitiesWe needed a vacation! And then something magical happened! Disney Cruise Lines announced cruises out of Galveston! We quickly booked a week-long Caribbean cruise with Mickey, Minnie, Donald and the rest of the Disney gang.  I highly recommend Disney Cruise Lines! It was the best!!!

Here are a list of tips we learned when cruising with our children:

Buy Travel Insurance

You never know when your child may get sick, break an arm, etc.

Upgrade Your Room at Check-In

You can get steep discounts on available rooms. We could have upgraded from an interior room to a larger room with a port hole for $200; however, being the budget travelers that we are, we chose to spend that money elsewhere, since we spent so little time in our room.

Cash Is Not Accepted at Shops On-Board

We made the mistake of bringing cash to spend on the ship for souvenirs; however, the ship’s gift shop only took our room key or credit cards for purchases.

Bring a Carry-On Bag When You Board

Think of what activities you or your kids might want to do the afternoon of boarding.  If your kids are waterbugs, like mine, bring swimsuits and pool paraphernalia in a carry-on so you don’t have to listen to your kids whine all afternoon because they want to get in the pool.

Decorate Your Stateroom Door

Since stateroom doors are made of metal, use magnets to decorate the door to your stateroom so your kids can find your room easily among the sea of doors that are identical.

Have a Plan for Sea Sickness

I cannot even read a map in the car without feeling woozy. Although, I did get “the patch” for the cruise, if you would like a more natural (and less expensive) alternative, consider taking Ginger Root capsules.  I used it considerably when my former job had me flying in a helicopter with a former Vietnam chopper pilot.

Enroll Your Children in the Ship’s Kids Club

My kids begged to spend time in the Oceaneers Club for kids. In fact, one evening, our Kindergartner didn’t asked to be picked up until nearly midnight!!

Plan for Naptime

Our 3-year-old needs an afternoon nap!  But the last thing we wanted to do was spend two hours in our interior cabin watching our child sleep.  We had an ingenious idea and took the kids to an afternoon movie at the ship’s on-board theater.  In the dark, cool theater, our exhausted preschooler fell asleep rather quickly, regardless of the theater’s surround sound system.  We enjoyed watching DisneyNature’s Chimpanzee. (you must see this movie about adoption in the wild)

10:00 am by Penelope

Video: Being a Homeschool Stepmom and Finding Child’s Talents

This is my story of becoming a stepmother and how my role quickly changed and expanded. With an ADHD label, public school was torture for my stepson, and our family saw numerous advantages of homeschool. Through our homeschooling, we discovered this boy had an unknown musical talent. Here is a video of my story that shows my stepson playing Beethoven’s Fur Elise on the piano.

You can also watch this video on YouTube.

Do your children have a label to overcome? What are their talents and gifts?

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