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7:00 am by Penelope

The Dream vs Reality of Being a Father

He was my Dream-Man! I was in college and had his photo in my room. I would look at him and smile. Hoping for the day – praying for the day.

This was my dream.

Do you remember this poster? I realize that I’m showing my age now and if you’ve never seen this photo, then — Shut Up!

This black & white poster, produced in 1987, showed a handsome, hunky father cradling his sweet, little baby, seemingly having a conversation.  This poster was a blockbuster of its time, selling over 5 million copies worldwide!

Wow! Even a quarter of a century later, this photo still captivates me — the lighting, the shadows, the illuminated infant. (okay, and the man’s biceps & pecs, too)

The truth behind the photo is that a male model is holding a baby, that’s it. The man, Adam Perry, went on to sleep with 3,000 women and is a deadbeat dad who has never even held his own son!

That’s the reality!

A harsh contrast to the story told in the photo.

My reality is that over two decades after Spencer Rowell’s photo captivated me —

 This is my reality!

MY DREAM CAME TRUE!

Do you remember this poster? Share your dream in the comments!

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