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1:42 pm by Penelope

This Girl is in the 9 Percent That Accomplish This

Graduation is around the corner. Graduating from college is an accomplishment that is sadly reserved for only 9% of low-income students receive a college diploma.[source: CNN Money]

Our amazing niece, Lydia, has overcome many obstacles, including growing up poor, to achieve the incredible accomplishment of a college diploma. And she did it all on her own!

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Although, Lydia did have the emotional support of her family, her family did not have the financial resources to assist her in the overwhelming cost of attending college.

Her parents couldn’t buy her a car, so she did not have a car to get her to classes or to her job at Walmart. She relied on friends and public transportation. Her sacrifice in attending college was huge. Sadly, she even had to spend holidays alone, away from family, because she had to go to work to make her way through college.

We saw her grow up from a fangirl, to color guard, and now a college graduate!!!

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All those sacrifices and tough times will cumulate as she walks the stage to receive her college diploma from University of North Texas on May 14th. Her road to success has not been easy, and we honor and celebrate her determination and accomplishment. We are so proud of Lydia!

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Through the years, I have struggled with graduation gift ideas. They say money is always good, but money isn’t a personal gift at all.

I wish I could give her my car as a graduation gift, but we just aren’t in a position right now to do that.

We moved to the Texas Hill Country a year ago, and I recently asked my husband if he had seen the diploma for my Master’s degree when we packed. Nope! It must be in a box somewhere, and hopefully, I can still find it! I have a Master’s degree and never framed it! After the five years I spent working full-time and going to graduate school at night – my Master’s degree is in a box…somewhere…hopefully I still have it!

That’s when I realized that the best college graduation gifts would be college diploma frames. We are so proud of Lydia, and now she can show the world her biggest achievement displayed beautifully on her wall, and not in a box somewhere (unlike her Aunt Penny).

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But a cheap frame isn’t the way to display such a hard-earned diploma. I found that diplomaframe.com (Church Hill Classics) is a professional framing company that handcrafts officially licensed diploma frames in the US. They have a huge selection of custom diploma frame styles for more than 1,500 colleges — including the University of North Texas.

Check out the University of North Texas diploma frame that I picked out for Lydia. It has a green suede matting with the school name embossed in gold and a medallion with the school seal.

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Disclosure: This post is sponsored by Church Hill Classics in partnership with The Motherhood.

10:00 am by Penelope

Video: Being a Homeschool Stepmom and Finding Child’s Talents

This is my story of becoming a stepmother and how my role quickly changed and expanded. With an ADHD label, public school was torture for my stepson, and our family saw numerous advantages of homeschool. Through our homeschooling, we discovered this boy had an unknown musical talent. Here is a video of my story that shows my stepson playing Beethoven’s Fur Elise on the piano.

You can also watch this video on YouTube.

Do your children have a label to overcome? What are their talents and gifts?

10:00 am by Penelope

When Your Child Gets Nothing for Christmas

If you follow along, you know that my Stinkpot is quite the mischievous little imp.

Hope your kids get “somethin'” for Christmas! Santa’s not sure about this stinker…

Have you joined our Facebook page? Nearly 200 friends!!!

10:00 am by Penelope

Introducing Our New Son

On December 15, 2009, I received a call that changed our lives. Mostly, it changed the life of this infant boy, only 3 months old at the time.

I fell in love at first sight. A first for me as I didn’t believe in love at first sight before that day.

Our Lil Bit is beautifully and wonderfully made!

Our Lil Bit scared us so many times. Numerous hospital stays and TWO broken arms!

Lil Bit loves his brother, Stinkpot, and asks for him first thing everyday! I love watching their relationship grow.

As our Lil Bit grows up, his smile warms my heart every step of the way!

23 months and 3 days later, he is our son!!! We are now officially a FAMILY!

Thank you for your support over the last two years. Every comment you have made, has made our journey easier.

May God shower you with His beautiful blessings as he has our family!

Much love and hugs!

11:30 am by Penelope

Our Foster Baby Talks!

Early Childhood Intervention

We have been concerned about our little foster boy. At 18-months-old, our Lil Bit just wasn’t talking.  He would babble, but would say very few words and rarely call for mama or dada. (At 18 months, Lil Bit should have been saying 8-10 words)

In March, Lil Bit was evaluated by Early Childhood Intervention and was markedly behind in communication. An Individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP) was developed to assist us in helping Lil Bit catch up, with an emphasis on speech therapy.

Since then, Lil Bit has had speech therapy twice a month.  Many times, the speech therapist was teaching us techniques to encourage him to talk:

  • Encourage him to say a word when he wants something, such as juice, ball, mama, please, etc.
  • Give him a choice of 2 toys with which to play. “Car or train?” And wait for him to say a word.
  • Praise him enthusiastically when he does say a word, even if it’s not pronounced correctly.

After a few months of speech therapy and working with him, Lil Bit decided to talk! He just started talking. And it’s so stinking cute!!!

  • “Peas!” with his hand on his chest. For Please.
  • “Choo-Choo!” when he sees a train.
  • “Eyeyuyoo!” after I say, “I love you.” Then he gets a big raspberry on his belly. Lots of giggles.
  • “Tee-ta” for his brother’s name. That’s funny.

When I sing “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star”, Lil Bit will chime in on “star”, “are”, “high”, “sky”!  And he has musical talent just like the rest of us in the family. Ouch!

He says “Amen” when we sing “If You’re Happy and You Know It”

And he tries so hard to sing along with “Hey, It’s Franklin”  when the PBS show begins. All that comes out is “spend” & “you” but not pronounced, more like “eeennn” & “oooooo”.

I’m having such a fun time enjoying him!!! These are very proud mommy moments!

What have been your favorite words or phrases your child has said while learning to talk???

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