Tried everything and nothing is working?
Feel like your living in total chaos all the time?
Thinking about having a foster child moved or just closing your foster home?
I know exactly how you feel! I have been there!
I didn’t know what to do! I tried everything! I read all the books and websites about parenting these hurt children. I attended extra foster parent training and conferences. I knew all the things, but in the moment, I couldn’t remember anything… There’s so much information to remember – I couldn’t keep it all straight!
I was desperate! So I decided to go through every single bit of information I had — everything!
I got out all my books and notes I’ve taken through the years, and began scouring through all of it. I pulled out every tip and technique, and grouped them. After doing this for a while, I began to see a pattern! All this connected parenting guidance could be put into 3 categories:
CALM – Staying calm and using self-care were mentioned quite a bit, but there wasn’t much information in detail.
CONNECT – The tips and techniques all revolved around showing empathy for your child and using connection to build relationship.
CORRECT – Misbehavior has to be corrected, but sometimes this means coaching the child in the correct way to respond to situations.
This is how the idea behind CALM-CONNECT-CORRECT was born.
When I began focusing on using this CALM-CONNECT-CORRECT process with my children, I began seeing amazing RESULTS!!!
After all these years, I finally was able to attune to my child’s emotions and understand what was really going on with my child, but most importantly, myself. I am finally able to feel amazing about the relationship of my attachment-challenged child. I am calmer; my children are happier.
That’s why I created CALM-CONNECT-CORRECT — a comprehensive course using a step-by-step process that will enable you to:
- calmly respond to trauma,
- discover the fear behind behavior,
- connect with your child during the hardest times, and
- dramatically transform your relationship!
Watch this free video series, which takes you through the CALM-CONNECT-CORRECT process.
The first video is only 10 minutes long so you can watch just about anytime.